In which I discuss that sickness called "home" and my resolutions

Right about now... I'm supposed to be studying for midterms. But who actually studies when they have to? *Get's a message from mom* Oh right... good students do. But seriously... Who is a good student when studying abroad?
Since it is likely that I will die tomorrow (from my Korean midterm for the class that I am waaay out of my league in), I want to skip a few months ahead to the present to commemorate my time here, as well as the time marking 2 months until I hop on a plane and head home.

First I would like to address the issue of my declining English skills. For this I apologize (I just misspelled that 3 times as I write this, fyi), but I can do nothing about it. I live in a house with 22 people, 19 of them speaking English as a second language. If I ask you to "take me a picture" or tell you something is "not possible" or tell you to go "ask the Tommy", just do as I do and understand. 이해해 제발! :-) Really... I forget words a lot these days. I guess I've watered down my vocabulary to just below average. Better start reading Dickens and Austen, eh?

I'm getting... I wouldn't say scared... but apprehensive about coming home. I've always heard you get reverse culture-shock. You get depressed. And I believe it! Sure, I'm looking forward to it! I think about it these days way more than before. I see home in nearly everything. I ride a bus and see trees by the highway... I'm in Tennessee. I'm eating cheese... I'm in America. I listen to a song... I'm in my room. I eat some American food... I'm in my house. Then I see our dirty kitchen, and I am roughly returned to my lovely dormhouse in Anyang, South Korea. Ha.

Before, I wouldn't have told you this since I felt bad about it, but I didn't miss home at all. It's not that I didn't love everybody, of course, but I just didn't think about it much. These days, I get this feeling that it would be great to be home... in two months. Maybe... it's homesickness? You may laugh, but I don't even know what it feels like, honestly! I've not had any semblance of homesickness since I was in first grade, crying for my mom at my friend's house during a thunderstorm. But, no lie, I'm happy here! I wouldn't go home now, even if I had the chance. But let's just say... I'm happy that I'm going home in 2 months.

Buuuuut I'm not. I'm torn up at the thought of leaving these people!

Of leaving this place...

Honestly, I hardly remember my one semester of dorm life. I'm more of an Anyang student than a Tech student! I've only gone to one semester of Tech and two here! I'm not sure how easy it will be going back to a place that requires a car to go everywhere. Though my parents are amazing... they're not restrictive except where it's necessary... I just don't know what it will be like to live in a house under authority again.

But I sure look forward to the food... Sometimes I look at my lackluster one-panned meals and think "참아야지" (chamayaji, "just endure it..."). ㅋㅋ.

And right here, though I'm afraid to do this since my mom reads this, haha, I want to tell you a few things I've  learned and want to put into practice when I get home. (Anything thing you read after this point cannot be used against me as a tool of coercion or guilt tripping in ANY way and ANY point). :-P

So I'm not sure if this is just a phenomenon of being away from home, but when I go back, I really want to help more around the house. I mean, honestly, it's not that hard. Especially if you just keep stuff clean! I'm afraid (and a little embarrassed to admit) that I wouldn't help much at home without being asked. But seriously, picking up a broom and just doing a quick sweep around the kitchen takes what... 2 minutes? And why not do the dishes? Would it kill ya? For all the people who grew up never resenting chores... congratulations. I hate to say it took me this long to mature.

Second, I want to share more. Despite my mother's great attempts to deter it's appearance, the selfishness that so permeates American culture has become ingrained in me. Of course, this in itself is human nature, but I feel like America especially is extreme in selfishness. Korea's got the sharing thing down pretty well. I think I've explained this before... how people share dishes usually in restaurants, how they offer each other food, how they buy things for others. I honestly can hardly believe that at one point in my short life I told my brother "No, you can't taste it! It's mine!" That is unimaginable to me now. HOW could I have been such a bad example to my brother? That I will change... have changed already.

I want to learn to cook! Being here has definitely made me want to know more dishes. I've got to learn how to do that thing where all the dishes of a multi-dish meal come out that the same time. Seriously. I already experienced that thing where Koreans asked me incredulously "You have to use a recipe?" lol.

And finally something else I've learned here. I found out that I'm capable. I have much to learn, but I am an adult, no matter how much my culture tell's me otherwise. Yes, I still like to be silly, watch kids' movies, squeal at incredibly cute things, jump up and down in excitement, be creative and artsy whether it concerns cardboard boxes on a rainy day or making weird noodly hotdogs or hotdoggy noodles, and yes, I am naive. Just try and convince me that that's a bad thing. While I may have had apprehensions about living alone, or handling my own finances one day before coming here, I don't anymore. Partly because now I know I can do it, but mostly because I know that God has given me these abilities as gifts.

And that leads into my last thing. I want to be more involved in ministry of the church. My spiritual journey here I count as the most important part, rather than "finding myself" or learning basic manners, ha. But if you do want to know more about what I've learned spiritually through this, I'll ask you to talk to me personally. I'd love to tell you! But just know that God has been so faithful to me. I've had ups and downs like everyone does, but He was my rock throughout all of it. He is the reason I'm here, and He's the reason I return! And anything good I learned here, I credit to His work.

Thanks for hanging in there! I know today was long, and mostly serious. But this is a serious subject for me. I've lived here for a year, and it's a big deal to me. It's difficult to evaluate it, and I still have 2 months to include when I get home! It's not over yet :-)


MUSIC :-)
Not a video ㅠㅠ (korean style tears aka :'-( ) but I love the sound of the song, especially the whistling :-)

Laoshan and Embarrassment

This day... was embarrassing. That's all I can tell you, really. I mean, it was nice, but it was embarrassing. At least I got to take some pretty pictures...

Why was it embarrassing? Well it started with our guides. We had these Korean student guides from day 1, but they only accompanied us when we went on school trips. Well, I was feeling sorry for them bec

ause no one was paying attention to them. I figured they would like some Korean company since they live in a foreign country, which I understand. But stupid social restrictions made it weird for people to go up and just... talk to them, include them. So, I expressed these views to my friends. Of course they interpreted my concern for the outsiders to be "liking" them. For the record, they were two young men. So all the people privy to this false information made fun of me all day, often within hearing distance of the poor boys, who I assumed couldn't speak English, but actually could. Yay! It didn't stop there, but I'll show you what we saw beforehand.

Does this make you think China? ha, I thought so...

As you can see, it was gorgeous there. Sadly, the prettiness did not lessen my embarrassment.

When we got back from seeing this waterfall (which was a disappointment actually, since we only went up to the falls, and couldn't hike anymore than that, which we were expecting), we went to have lunch.
Here is a diagram of what happened at lunch:

If you don't understand still, let me break it down. I stand up, therefore the weight of the bag makes the chair top-heavy. It falls. I stupidly decide to sit down and then find out what the crash sound was. I fall on my rear end. I die of embarrassment. 

The worst part is that I could tell everyone was embarrassed for me. I kept bursting into laughter, and no one would laugh with me! Some girls said "awww" and patted my hand. Another told me that ladies should not stand up to get food. "Uh... Thanks". Ah, and it was at the table with the guides. hahaha.Well, there's my exciting story of the day! You're welcome. Ha.

Obligatory music video time! I've got two because I'm going for a detective theme today because... um, I guess detective/spy themes are popular now. haha. Well, first I'll address something I'm sure you will wonder. Yes, it is a man. of the male species. I know it's hard to believe. Ah, and there's a girl group who did one too! And I totally would have posted it to show both sides, but its not quite appropriate. Talk about objectifying women... It's videos like that that make me dislike most girl groups.

You Know You Live in Korea when...

Yes! I am going to do a really cliche blog post! Though I should make it more like "You know you live in Korea as a American national when..."

You know you live in Korea when you wear Korean style clothing that would be considered grandma clothes in the US! This is me and two of my roomies dressed up for a birthday party :-D

You know it when...

1. You unconciously use only your right hand to give things or take things from people, while your left hand supports the elbow.
This is because in Korean culture, it's rude to use your left hand to give or accept things. Nowadays, I can't help it. When I come back, see if I do it. 

2. You bow when you greet people.
Yes, I can't help this either. I think it's going to be pretty hilarious when I go home and start bowing to everyone. 

3. You eat other people's food without asking.
This is gonna be bad. See, in Korea (and Asia in general) people share food. Like in restaurants, there is often one big dish that everyone can just eat out of. So in the house, it is relatively common to just go try someone's food without asking. I may have picked up this habit. haha.

4. On the subway, if someone leaves the seat at the end of bench, you scoot down to it, or run for it.
This is something that I find interesting, though logical. I was sitting on the third seat down, and the person on the end left, then the person next to me (in the second seat) scooted over. At first, I thought it was sort of rude, as if they wanted to avoid me. But after a few months of observation, I have concluded that they will always scoot to the end. Weird of me to notice, but it is pretty funny. Maybe they do it in other places too... I don't know.

5. You often use expressions of uncertainty like "it seems like" or "maybe", even when you are perfectly sure.
This one is super annoying. In the Korean language, it more polite to speak on uncertain terms. They are not likely to just say "We should do this" or "This is it" and more likely to say "Maybe we should do this" and "It seems like this is it" even though they mean the former. Arrrgh they even translate it to english and I never know whether it's actually maybe or not. Sadly enough, I now do the same, sticking maybe in front of a lot of sure things. :-/ haha

6. You compliment people on their English whether they're that good or not.
I picked this up from the Koreans, who, even if you just say one word of Korean (like annyeonghaseyo, hello) they say with wonder "Ooooh you're good at Korean!" It's rather off-putting, since I never even got a chance to try out my true skills, and they're already saying I'm good. It has to do with their very low expectations for foreigners. 

7. You hear English and you get surprised.

8. You mix up your l's and r's and in general lose most of your English skill.
This applies only to native speakers. It's really annoying. 

9. You give weird looks to foreigners and whisper "외국인"(korean word for foreigner) hostilely behind their backs.
I don't know why I do this. Maybe I'm protective of my territory hahaha. Koreans don't do this, but kids will often say "hello! hi!" to us. They're cute.

10. You don't feel safe in Itaewon, a place know for foreigners.
I know... It's sad. But seriously, I don't feel safe around foreigners! I'll walk down a dark alley of Koreans, but never one of foreigners. 

11. You forget how to use sarcasm and/or wit.
ㅠㅠ This I am most sad about. I seriously am going to take offense at everything everyone says when I come back home, just because Korea doesn't use sarcasm.

12. You introduce yourself with the Korean pronunciation of your name, knowing they'd never get it otherwise.
Mine's Leh-ee-chell. hahahaha. 

13. K-pop becomes normal.
Is this possible? I'm sure you guys have heard of/seen the Psy music video "Gangnam Style". Well, my friends. In Korea-land, that's pretty normal. The bright colors, ridiculous costumes, pretty people (minus Psy of course ha)... it's all everyday stuff. No, normal people don't go around like that, but it's accepted as normal entertainment. It no longer makes me giggle, and I don't even make fun of it anymore... I am a shameless kpop listener! 

And you know you live in the Anyang University International House, when...

14. Sleep? What is this sleep you speak of?

15. You've forgotten what quiet is like.

16. Someone asks you what food you're making and your answer is "I don't know..." every time.
We have a tendency to just throw whatever we have together in some sort of stir-fry. So don't ask us what it is.

17. You think hearing German, Spanish, Danish, and Chinese on a daily basis is normal.

18. You create fake familial relationships. I have a 30 year old son. My roommates both have dads that are only a few years older than them.

19. emart boxes + rainy day = emart robot.

Originally, I was inside it... but it was not that comfortable haha. 
















20. There are so many inside jokes you can't count.

21. You tend to adopt your housemates language habits, whether english or not. "En serio!" "It's too much..." "It is not possible" "Is that normal?" "你的屁股很臭" (Your butt smells... hahahaha).

22. It's too dirty ㅠㅠ

23. You have to wait to shower or to cook.

24. At least one person will come home drunk everyday...

25. Everyday is a learning experience!


And here is an example of one of those "normal" music videos that are soooo crazy.

Chicken-tasting Scorpion and the Coast of Qingdao

Hello again! On my first trip to China, we went to downtown Qingdao three times. To the exact same attractions. So I will combine all these trips into one post! Yay!

Rocky Coast

This was a very beautiful little spot in a rather dreary setting, so we were very glad to stay awhile! I bought some super cheap little bracelets at a beachside tent, then we went on to a very interesting place...

Evidently this place was created in 1902... It was an alley of eye-catching things and seafood. Everything was looking pretty cool when we walked in.

Then we saw this table:

Delicious, right??? Mmm, snakes, lizards, cockroaches, oh my!
And the next time we went... I ate some scorpion! It tasted like chicken. No joke.

When we went to the market, I tried to channel some Vietnamese Kung Fu (I don't know the equivalent, haha) and this ajusshi was staring at me like I was weird. What's his deal? Doesn't it happen everyday? :-P

 There were no other exciting adventures that day other than... maybe almost getting hit by cars. But that happened everyday in China, so no big deal! As an American, I'm used to pedestrians having the right of way. Not so in China! Even crossing on green is dangerous. Keep a sharp eye!

Over and out for today... Lately, I guess I've wanted to just stick with the present, you know? So its been hard to get over here and push something out. I sound like most unmotivated bloggers, I know. Haha. No promises, but I do want to continue until the end, and hopefully have a coherent story by the end. Here's to hoping!

 The part I never forget: music video!

This song really brings me back... It's the first song that ever got me interested in kpop, and it was the ringtone I had the last semester of my senior year that I was so embarrassed about and had me diving for my phone every time someone called. It's a bit different than other kpop songs. For one, its actually a band, not just a bunch of dancing robots. And its less dance and more of... eh... alternative pop? I don't know what to call it. Anyway. Despite the awkward video, enjoy!

Welcome to Qingdao!

What's up, Qingdao?

Possibly the most exciting thing about being there was the discovery of exotic flavors of Oreos! While I type this, I am munching on some Green tea ice cream flavored Oreos left over from my second China trip.

But careful... the fruit flavored ones taste like cough medicine.






And the second best thing to find out was definitely that you can have landslides in Chinese bathrooms! Our hotel bathrooms specifically. That was a shocker.









And these drinks were great... We had them nearly every day for about 7 yuan each (a little more than a buck) and they were soooo delicious. The orange and mango were my favorites. There was a man who worked there every day who helped us out with his suggestions. It was all handmade, too!
By the way, this is my lovely roommate through the whole trip, Soyeon. She was so sweet to share a room with me, even though I don't speak much Korean, and she doesn't speak much English!

We also got to make mandu... that is, dumplings, with Chinese students one day! They were pretty delicious... probably because I helped so much. hahaha.
In this picture I am warning the photographer away, for it was mine. ALL MINE! Hahaha... actually I was trying to stop him from taking more pictures, but it looks pretty funny anyway.




I'll leave it at that today and save the longer trips for their own posts! Last picture: This is the other American, me, the guy who encouraged us to come (and knows Chinese), and the guy who lives in our dorm!

Music video time!
I admit this is just a run-of-the-mill kpop boy group music video... it has the ridiculous outfits/haircuts/doll-like faces... but the song just sticks in my head. So I thought I'd do the favor and share it with you!
Bwahahaha

Laying it All Out... The Beginning of a Busy Summer

China!

I've finally reached summer. I walked into this summer thinking I would be really bored. Most of the students in my house were going back for the summer, and Korean students often have different ideas of summer than American (meaning, they study) so I was sure I would be alone all the time. That's not how it turned out at all, but then, there were only two things that consoled me: China. Yes, I realize "China" is not two things, but I was going to go to China two times this summer, so that makes two trips. I will explain both of these trips through a series of posts, not just one each, so hold tight!

Okay, I don't want to depress you with my explanation of my first trip, so just know that I compare it to my second trip, which was amazing. So basically, an okay trip becomes in my mind not so great in the light of a such a wonderful trip.

My first trip was with my school. We were going to Qingdao, China, a coastal city closest to South Korea. The first week, we studied Chinese in the morning, then had free afternoons and evenings. The second week we went travelling a bit and saw various places. While it was a good experience, and I definitely had good times, this was not my favorite trip for a few reasons. For one, it was not a very well planned trip. It was the first trip to this school, and the school itself didn't do so well. Most of the time it felt like they didn't care much about what we wanted, but they just wanted to show off and follow the schedule, throwing us around and taking us places to make us run through and get back on the bus. Number two was the area we were in. Someone later told me it was a place that Korean companies used to be involved in, then they all pulled out. So basically it was full of a bunch of half finished apartments and buildings that really depressed me when I saw them. Here's a great example of how this city was planned, hahaha:

So as you can see, that is a crosswalk. With a bush in front of it. Bwahahaha... we all died when we saw this.
Another thing that made it not the best trip ever was the group with which I went with. Don't get me wrong... I really liked all of them, and the problem was not entirely their fault. But, I went with around 20 Koreans and one American. That is bound for some communication issues and some feeling of being left out... And lets just add that there was LOTS of drama on this trip (in which I was not involved). It didn't help that they liked drinking more than seeing sights, and for someone who doesn't like drinking at all, that's no fun. As most of you should know, its the people you're with that make or break a trip. So part of the time they made mine, part of the time they broke it.

Ok, maybe you thought it wasn't necessary for me to tell you that it wasn't such a great trip. True, but then you wouldn't have gotten the feeling of the posts. They would just be pictures and stories with no background, and that's not any good. Plus, part of travel blogging is sharing the bad stuff too. So, I don't say this all to make you feel bad or anything, it's just so you know, you know? Haha, glad I got that cleared up.

A Happy Planning Mistake

I guess the first story is the first thing that made us notice that the planning for this trip wasn't so great. We arrived at the dorm we were going to stay it, only to find that the conditions were not so good. There was no AC... and the bathrooms had no toilets, just squatty potties, and get this... The shower was over the squatty potties! Btw, this is a squatty potty. So weirdly enough, someone in charge said we could go to a hotel. So we did. And this is what it looked like:

With this kind of view:

So that was awesome! Probably the best problem ever. Haha.

I'll leave it at that today and start on the adventures on my next post!

Music video: I'm going for a more indie one this time! I just heard this and I love it. She has such a different sound than most Korean girl artists.

An Island of Friendship and Clams

Sometime in June my Korean friend invited me to a retreat with his church. I went with the preparation team, early in the morning down to an island in the south called Anmyundo. So it was me and... let's see... 8 guys, I think. Haha. Anyhow, we went early and bought lots of food and ate more of it... then we looked at all the prettiness!

As you can see, it was very pretty. This is a picture of the kaetbol, or mudflats. So inside our cute little pension, the guys practiced praise songs and I sang along as best I could. My reading isn't so fast, haha.
Here's the Korean version of In Christ Alone, which we sang!



Then, they made me sing in In Christ Alone and Amazing Grace in English by myself... haha. Somehow I had more confidence because they couldn't speak English so well. Afterwards they were all like, "Wow, you should come to our church sometime!" Haha, I don't say it as a a bad thing, but its pretty easy to amaze Koreans with English skill. ;-)

That night we went looking for clams before the rest of the retreaters arrived. Sadly, not being able to see does not help with finding clams. Haha.

It was a really nice time to spend... we had barbecue, fellowship, and fun! The next day, after the rest of the people arrived, we went digging for more clams... And I found a lot this time!

No... I didn't find all of those. :-)

All in all, a super cool experience that I probably would never do in the States!

Well, over and out. And here's a new music video... Different than usual, yes, but I just watched a wonderful drama, and this is a song from it. I approve! Ignore the video though... it's just visuals from the drama.

This is Home Part II

and our adventures go on!

Paldang Bike Trip

Ever since the biking disaster from a previous post, some of us had been wanting to go biking along the Han river on a nice day. So we went reeeeally far east and rented some bikes for the day and went biking! It was gorgeous scenery... It was countryside, no city, and so refreshing.

Yeongdeungpo Time's Square

One of my ichat partners took me to see "Snow White and the Huntsman" (before it came out in the US, I might add ^^) and to eat spaghetti at a restaurant named "Molecole" inspired by the things that make up the world (and, no, I did not mistype that), and then eat ice cream Korean style!

Busan

Our Korean teach actually planned a trip for us to go to Busan, in south South Korea, so we went!

Here's the first part:
Elaine, Pau, Tati, and I took a bus while the others took KTX. Our bus was comfy :-)
The first part of the day we went to the museum in Busan and the Korean War memorial.

Next, we went to Nampodong, a fish market, and then we went to Busan Tower. I have never seen anything like the fish market in Nampodong! It was probably the most fascinating place I went to while there, and definitely the most smelly. It was just like in the dramas. A huge warehouse full of FISH! And we had the chance to eat the fish that was swimming there! In fact, the man just picked the fish up and chopped its head off in front of us! Haha, some screamed. Upstairs at the fish market is a sort of food court just for sushi! I... did not take the chance. I just went and ate some normal Japanese food. Haha.

All in all... you can see that this trip was amazing... Beautiful, etc.

Okay, everyone! This is going to be the last post like this... Honestly, I don't get anything out of it, because it's so much that I can't tell you anything about it! So, I'm going to do more frequent, shorter posts from here out. I'm sure you'll appreciate that as well, right?

Music video: Monster, yo! From Big Bang, my favorite crazy boy band.

Fast Forward to... A Korean Style Birthday!!!

Alright folks, brace yourselves! We're going to fast forward a month! I've been insanely busy... so blogging has taken a back seat. But today, I have motivation to blog! But I want to blog about what I want. Not in order. So forgive me, and enjoy!

So I was just going to sleep all day... but instead I got 4 cakes. Score!

No really, I have the greatest friends! Of course birthdays hardly ever go as planned. :-)

Yes! This past 10th was my 19th birthday, and my second birthday in a row abroad (last summer I was in Rome). This time, I had just returned from China (I will, someday put a post about it! I must!), so I didn't have any plans, and I wasn't sure who knew about it, so I thought I'd just sleep and watch movies (good enough for me :-) )!

Miguel (far right) and friends! Yes, I was the only girl.

It started normally... I skyped with Merry (and
received her package of super cute clothes from Forever 21 right afterwards!). I was waiting for Miguel, a Spanish foreign exchange student, to come back from travelling around with his brother and friends. When they came they were immediately going back out to see Anyang, and they invited me and Toni! So we went and met Scott (Korean)! By then, Derick (another good Korean friend) had texted me and asked to eat dinner together. So I went with the Spanish boys for lunch (in which we ate 닭 갈비 (dalk [chicken] galbi) for the first time in a long time. It was amazing.


Then we went to another place in which to meet some more peeps (Derick, Elaine, and Yoonjin). And when they came the brought me a cake! (the first one in the collage). ㅠㅠ It was so sweet of them! I wish I had a group picture... but, I don't have it. Anyhow, it was lovely, and afterwards (Miguel and the Spanish boys had to catch a plane, so we gave them goodbyes [haha, and Spanish style kisses] and they went on their way) we went and had beef barbecue! Sooo tasty. I would never get tired of it.

Number 2. No not that. Cake number 2.

Guess what was waiting for me when I got home? :-D The Costa Rican girls couldn't join my party, so they bought me a cake while I was gone! Again, how sweet?

Irina, Elaine (not Costa Rican, haha, Taiwanese), Stephanie, and Cindy!

Wholesomeness :-) Not the cake... that was just tasty.

The next cake I got was from my mission's team! They surprised me at mission's training after church yesterday, actually! It is the 3rd cake :-) And it was so tasty! I have really enjoyed Sundays lately, especially because of them. Sure, I come home at 11:30 pm those days, but they're such rewarding days, that it doesn't matter. My church service is at 4:00 in the afternoon, so it makes for a late start. I love my church here, too! I have grown a lot through the services and the mission's meetings, and recently I've started going to the college small group, and it has been such a blessing. God has been so good to me!

In which I find out I will not be ready to be a mother/wife for a LONG time.

The last cake, I actually shared! I got it today, and today is what sparked this post, because, today, I made a  true Southern home cooked meal! I was so proud I wanted to talk about it, haha. 

Two Korean friends came over today for the purpose of cooking! We met in front of emart and got to shopping! 

The main dish was fried chicken! They were really surprised when they found out I had to use a recipe. I lied and said even mothers had to use recipe in the States (surely that's the case? hahaha). Anyhow, the recipe I used was good! Right here if you're curious! 

Next was mashed potatoes. Which they actually made... I just told them what to do. And they did so well! I was impressed, since they were completely hand made, but still quite fluffy. And I made a chicken gravy to go with it.

For some healthier vegetably side dishes I planned for steamed brocolli and just some canned corn. To go with the brocolli I made some white sauce based cheese sauce! So glad there are left overs :-D.

None of that is so very hard to make... but I was worried about the fried chicken, since our stove only had two settings: high and less high. Haha. Anyhow, we don't have a cooking thermometer (or towels, or paper towels, or anything else useful for that matter hahahaha), so I was worried something might explode. But it went perfectly! If there was any complaint it would only be that it was a bit salty. It tasted... delicious.

It was super great to eat some good American food again! I don't miss American food much... but I miss my mom's cooking, and while this was definitely not up to par to my mom's meals (the fried chicken may have come close ;-) ) it was a nice reminder. 

Then we ate the cake, celebrating all three of our birthdays. Minkeun's is in June, and mine and Boram's were in July.

And you know what's really Korean style? They eat cake right off the platter! I don't think I'll ever go back to the old way. It's too fun to just dig in. Why serve things out and dirty up dishes? I think that's one of my favorite things about Korean eating culture. Sharing! You don't worry about how much you get, because you don't know how much you get! You just eat! I will force this onto my family and friends when I get home... bwahaha.

I had a wonderful birthday this year! Of course it was made better by receiving packages from family and friends :-) I miss everyone at home! But the kind of missing that makes me thankful for them, and thankful that I have this opportunity to realize how much I was taking for granted before I left them. :-)

On a separate note...

What do I do? When I get home, I will either not be able to eat much, or I will get fat. When I got here, I thought I must have a tapeworm, because I never got full! I could eat so much, all my Korean friends were amazed that I was so thin. You see, my American stomach could take a lot of the light and carb-y food they eat here. They don't eat much butter or oil, you see. Even going to China last week showed me the difference. I couldn't eat much because Chinese food has a lot of oil. Don't worry mom! I haven't lost any weight. I just don't eat as much unhealthy food. Except for ramyun. I eat a lot of that. ;-)

And on an even separater (not a word, I know, but I'm telling you my English is getting worse here, so I have an excuse) note, I have about a million bug bites right now. Korean mosquitoes are vicious monsters. If you ever come here, be prepared.

Over and out! Thanks for the birthday wishes on facebook!

Music video of the day: It was so hard to choose! There are so many interesting songs and videos out right now! Let me introduce you to the world of 2NE1. Yes, that's either 21 or To Anyone. Gotta love kpop group names. They're basically the Lady Gaga of kpop idol groups. And no, I don't particularly like how they dress and dance, or that they have terrible plastic surgery, but I'm just glad they don't pretend to cater to the younger crowd. Most girl groups try to be cute while in actuality, they are being provocative. It's really sad for the young Korean girl generation who think they have to be up to kpop idol's standards of beauty and "sexiness". If I had a family in Korea, I would try my hardest to keep my daughters away from this, but even if a mother tries, the kpop phenomenon so permeates modern Korean culture that it would be nigh impossible. Anyway, that was my piece on kpop. But... haha, I actually like the song. It's different, and catchy... if you've ever heard a normal kpop song, haha. I just would keep this away from young sons and daughters. Heh. And old sons.